W. Austin Gardner
Ideas from Mentoring for Mission for our Deacons

To impact lives we must have a close walk and relationship with the God of heaven
That most often happens in time alone with God
I need to be with God before I worry about being with people
It is my relationship with God that will draw people to want to learn from me
They must see that there is something to learn, to gain from being with us
We must earn their trust to impact their lives
To impact lives I need to practice with-ness
No relationship then no impact
This will not be carried out in a classroom setting
It is not the amount of information that I have that matters to people
If I am task oriented, trying to accomplish a purpose, I may lose my impact
They want to be loved more than they want to learn or be taught
Our heart must go out to them. Not just our mind or ministry but our heart.
The lesson here might be to be with people as I do the ministry that God has given me
Do not do things alone
You may be able to do it better than others but you want to show them, teach them, let them
They must know that we think of them as important
We are not simply doing ministry or letting them in on it
We want them. We believe in them
We want to train them to take places of responsibility not just have numbers in attendance, etc
We want to be servants
Our goal is to see them become a success
We know that we are only temporarily doing this ministry.
We want to model for them how to live and do ministry
We are to be what we want them to be
Serving for us is more about us being who we are so that others can learn the same
We are not trying to be great anything but show them our great Jesus
We don't want to be something that they can’t be
Let’s show them how the truth can work in their lives
We need to work at getting to know our people and their reality
I know in my youth I failed so many times because I didn't understand my audience
We want to help them make the truth a part of their lives
They may not understand how the Bible will work in their context unless we learn their reality
They must understand so they can obey
I hope that these lessons have also helped you understand the difficulties that our missionaries face
In lots of ways we work cross culturally also
We must remember that if we have been in church a long time they may not understand anything we are saying
We speak a different language
We have to go over the materials we teach and put it where they can understand it not us
Lessons to learn and apply from this
Work closely with our people
Be the model of the truth
Teach others
Get them involved with all you are doing
Try to make sure the Word is the center of anything you are doing even if you do not open it
Lets make the most of all that God gives us
Let’s show them that they are honored, loved, served, encouraged and trusted to do their best for the Lord.
Let’s be concerned to be Spirit filled Christians who live in and by the power of the Holy Spirit